Holding Space Podcast; Video Recordings

🌟 Discover the profound wisdom of letting go and finding peace amidst life's chaos. In this heartfelt episode, Tiger explores why attachment to outcomes creates suffering and how embracing the present moment leads to true freedom. Learn practical spiritual insights about: - Breaking free from outcome attachment - Finding peace in imperfection - Understanding the root of emotional pain - Practical approaches to mindfulness - The power of clear seeing Whether you're dealing with relationship challenges, career transitions, or daily stress, this episode offers valuable perspectives on finding peace by letting go of how things "should" be. Chapters 00:30 Embracing the Flow 02:12 Dealing with Distractions and Expectations 04:16 Attachment to Outcomes and Self-Worth 06:02 The Quest for Wholeness 08:00 The Illusion of External Solutions 12:40 Seeing Beyond the Surface 17:37 Practical Spirituality 20:15 Personal Anecdotes and Communication 22:11 Conclusion and Gratitude

Recap Why Does It Feel So Exhausting to Be Human? We all know that feeling of pushing, striving, fixing. It’s easy to believe that life itself is exhausting, but is it really? "The exhaustion isn’t life—it’s the ego’s fight to protect an image of who you think you are." We talked about how the ego is always chasing something—control, validation, perfection. But what if you didn’t need to fix yourself? What if, instead of striving, you could relax into being exactly who you already are? Key insight: You’re not a project to fix. You’re already enough. The Mind’s Stories and the Noise They Create The mind loves to spin stories—about who we are, what we lack, and how life should be. It convinces us that we’re broken and that if we just solved this one thing, we’d finally be okay. "The irony? The more we try to fix the noise, the louder it gets." But here’s the truth: these stories are harmless, temporary, and ultimately not real. The mind isn’t the enemy—it’s just doing its thing. You don’t have to solve its noise; you can simply notice it and let it pass. Reflection: What stories are you holding onto that aren’t serving you? Trusting the Unknown It’s the start of a new year, and naturally, we think about plans and resolutions. But as I shared in the talk: "Nothing in my life has ever gone the way I thought it would—and that’s actually beautiful." We spend so much time trying to predict and control the future, but what if the unknown isn’t something to fear? What if it’s the very thing that makes life magical? Instead of controlling, trust. Instead of fearing, allow. Instead of striving, relax. When we stop trying to direct life, we might just notice that it’s carrying us exactly where we need to go. Reflections Worth Holding Onto Here are a few takeaways to sit with: “You’re already the beautiful human you think you need to become.” “Relax, buddy. Everything’s okay.” “What if you stopped trying to be God—and just let God be God?” An Invitation to Let Go If there’s one thing I hope you take from this talk, it’s this: You’re already home. You don’t need to strive, fix, or solve. Life isn’t a problem—it’s an invitation to see the miracle that’s already here. And when you’re ready, go out and love on people. Love in the most effortless, joyful, and honest way possible.

We explore the inherent playfulness of existence—a perspective that invites us to see life, and ourselves, with fresh eyes. Often, we get caught in cycles of stress, seriousness, and striving to fix things, believing that our worth is tied to how much we accomplish or how well we overcome life’s challenges. But what if the deeper truth is that you are already whole and complete? What if the stories you tell about your past, the worries about your future, and the emotional weight of the present are not rooted in reality but in imagination? Together, we’ll look at: How life is an adventure filled with moments of fear, joy, and uncertainty—and why that’s what makes it beautiful. Why your past is more like a movie you’ve been telling yourself, and how to let go of its grip. The importance of “returning”—taking a moment to drop everything and honor what’s deeply true about who you are. How giving tragedy enough time often reveals its playful, even humorous, nature. This is a conversation about releasing the weight of unnecessary stories, seeing the lightness of life, and embracing the playful quality that permeates existence. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply curious about a different way to see yourself and your life, this talk offers a gentle invitation to come back to the present moment and rediscover what’s real. Take a moment. Breathe. And join me in exploring the playful nature of what it means to be alive.

In this exploration of The Sacred & Conscious Design of Life, we uncover the profound beauty and intentionality woven into the human experience. This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and see beyond the surface of our struggles and stories. Together, we’ll investigate the truth of life’s design, one that reveals there are no mistakes—only a lack of seeing the bigger picture. Through heartfelt insights, we’ll touch on themes like: - The interconnectedness of life and nature’s symphony. - How fear and imagination shape our perception. - The gift of stillness and clarity in discovering what truly matters. - The natural compassion that arises when judgment falls away. This is not a journey of chasing something outside yourself but a remembering of what’s always been here—a profound love and purpose at the heart of everything. Take a moment to honor this discovery. Open your heart, breathe, and join me in seeing the miraculous design of simply being alive. CHAPTERS 00:31 The Invitation to Presence 🌟 Exploring the sacred opportunity to simply be alive. 02:01 Life’s Perfect Design 🔍 Reflecting on the inherent perfection of life. 05:18 Fear vs. Reality 💭 How fear, born from imagination, distorts what is true. 08:11 Nature’s Symphony 🌌 The interconnected harmony that holds everything together. 11:01 Cycles of Life 🔄 Life feeding life, the endless dance of renewal. 14:20 Love at the Center ❤️ The essence of life and the truth of what we all seek. 17:41 Letting Go of Stories 😂 Releasing judgment and the illusions we hide behind. 20:31 Healing Perception 🌱 Clarifying our view of reality and dissolving fear. 26:44 The Adventure of Awakening ✨ Discovering the epic prize that has always been within. 29:34 Misunderstandings and Growth 🌀 Seeing challenges as part of life’s sacred design. 33:13 Trusting the Design 🙏 Leaning into the intentionality of life’s sacred dance. 36:11 Compassion in Truth 🌈 Seeing reality clears judgment and reveals effortless love. 39:21 Prioritizing Discovery 🌍 Embracing honesty and the journey to what’s real.

Tiger offers a powerful exploration of true freedom and the ways in which misunderstandings about control and desire keep it out of reach. He challenges the common belief that freedom is something to be achieved through external means, such as controlling circumstances or others’ perceptions. Instead, he points to a deeper truth: freedom is an intrinsic aspect of what is real and can only be recognized by surrendering illusions and embracing authenticity. Through his compassionate and direct insights, Tiger invites a shift in perspective that reveals the profound beauty of living unbound.

What We Explored We began with a light-hearted invitation: “Don’t take this too seriously. Hang out with me in the moment, marinate in the presence, and see what resonates.” This set the tone for a journey into how desire operates in our lives—not as something to conquer or control, but as something to deeply understand. The Nature of Desire Desire itself isn’t the issue; it’s our relationship to it that creates confusion. Here’s a key distinction: Desire vs. Desired: I shared that “the sensation of desire—the energy of longing—is different from the mind’s image of what it thinks you desire.” For instance, you might feel pulled toward freedom, but the mind might translate that as needing a billion dollars or the ability to fly. Recognizing this difference is where clarity begins. A Universal Longing We also looked at how desire mirrors our deeper truth. At its core, every human desire stems from a longing to reconnect with: Love Wholeness Freedom A sense that “all is well” Even in the nuances of sexual or financial desires, I invited you to notice how these seemingly different cravings reflect the same fundamental pull. “There’s a longing in all of us,” I said, “to experience what we already are.” Confusion and Distortion When we forget that the essence of what we desire is already within us, things get tricky. This is where anxiety, fear, and even conflict enter. “The confusion,” I explained, “is believing that what you desire is separate from you—outside of you. And then seeing people or circumstances as standing in the way.” From here, desire can become distorted, leading to behaviors rooted in control, fear, or even harm. A moment that stood out for many: “Imagine thinking you’re separate from what you want most, and others are withholding it from you. How does that frame your relationships with them?” Seeing Desire Clearly On the flip side, when we understand that “what we desire is already within us,” everything softens. There’s no need to chase, control, or fear. Instead, we can meet desire with playful curiosity, shifting from “I desperately need this” to “That could be fun to explore!” I illustrated this with a simple phrase: “The difference between fearful seriousness and sincere playfulness is night and day.” Why This Matters Understanding the mechanism of desire isn’t just theoretical; it’s practical. When you stop seeing desire as a problem or something “out there” to obtain, you: Experience less fear and anxiety Begin to see others as allies, not obstacles Tap into a more joyful, creative way of living A Playful Question to Reflect On Here’s something we pondered during the talk: “What if the desires that feel most compelling are actually invitations to experience new flavors of the truth you already are?” Wrapping Up The essence of this exploration was simple yet profound: Desire isn’t your enemy. It’s a beautifully designed mechanism inviting you to experience yourself more deeply. For those who were there, I hope this recap brings the insights back to life. And for anyone who missed it, I hope it sparks curiosity to dive in when you can. Thank you for your openness to explore this with me. It’s a privilege to navigate these topics together. With love and curiosity, Tiger 🐯 

In this talk, we dove deep into the idea that life’s challenges aren’t obstacles—they’re the very path to growth and authenticity. Here’s a taste of what we explored: Why Life is Supposed to Be Hard We started with this game-changing idea: “The experience of being human is supposed to be a challenge. When you stop resisting the hard things, you align with reality—and life gets easier.” Resistance doesn’t just make things harder—it compounds the difficulty. The key is to embrace what’s uncomfortable and trust that this is where transformation happens. Growth Happens in Resistance I shared a personal story about my journey with health and fitness: At the gym, progress only happens by lifting what feels heavy and difficult. Over time, what was once hard becomes easy—and that’s when you find the next challenge. The same applies to life: whether it’s relationships, finances, or personal growth, strength is built in the hard moments. This simple truth shows up everywhere: “Growth requires resistance. It’s not an obstacle; it’s the way forward.” Why We Avoid Honesty We talked about honesty—especially in relationships. Here’s the thing: Honesty requires vulnerability. It means letting go of control and stepping into the unknown. And it’s hard because the ego desperately wants to maintain its facade. But without honesty, we can’t create real connection. “The more we avoid hard conversations or difficult truths, the harder relationships become.” What Are You Avoiding? Toward the end of the talk, I asked a simple yet powerful question: What hard things are you avoiding right now? Maybe it’s a conversation you’ve been putting off. Maybe it’s taking responsibility for something in your life. Or maybe it’s just allowing yourself to feel what you’ve been suppressing. Whatever it is, remember: “The pain we avoid doesn’t disappear—it waits for us until we’re ready to face it.” Key Takeaways from the Talk Life is meant to challenge you. The hard things are here to help you grow. Embrace resistance. Growth lives in the spaces where we feel discomfort. Honesty is the gateway to authenticity. Let go of control and trust the process. Take responsibility. Stop waiting for the fear to go away—it’s through facing it that you move forward. With love, Tiger 🐯

Join me as we explore the misunderstood weight of emotional baggage—a burden many of us carry unknowingly. In this video, I share insights into how this baggage forms, why we hold onto it, and how it keeps us from experiencing true joy. Together, we'll uncover how emotional baggage isn't about "fixing" something broken but about seeing through the stories we tell ourselves about past experiences. This isn't about getting rid of baggage by force but about creating space to see its innocent nature, its misunderstandings, and how these stories impact our perceived identity. Through gentle, honest self-inquiry, we can begin to let go, not out of resistance, but as a natural response to understanding what's real and true. This video offers an invitation—not advice, not rules—to reflect on your own direct experience. Let's sit with what is, together, and explore how a lighter heart leads to a fuller life. Chapters/Topics 03:34 - A Backpack Full of Rocks: The Weight We Carry 06:16 - Misunderstandings About Reality and Meaning 10:55 - Seeing Emotional Pain as an Opportunity 15:24 - How Stories Shape Our Baggage 20:18 - The Ego’s Role in Holding On 24:45 - Shifting from Blame to Freedom 30:33 - The Invitation to Radical Self-Honesty 35:12 - The Role of Understanding in Letting Go 40:02 - Emotional Baggage as a Doorway to Love and Joy 44:31 - Closing Reflections: Sitting with What Is

Welcome, beautiful humans! In this live broadcast, I’m diving into what real freedom looks like and how it connects to our inner experience. So often, we think freedom is about making the world work for us, but what if real freedom has nothing to do with the outside? What if it’s about letting go of our need to control and realizing that peace and love are already here, waiting to be seen? Together, we’ll explore how life is a mirror that reflects our relationship with ourselves, how our inner stories create our experience, and how waking up to this truth can transform our lives. Let’s get curious about what’s really going on and take a look beyond the noise to the freedom that’s already in us. Grateful you’re here. Chapter Outline 0:30 - Welcome to Real Freedom I introduce the idea of freedom—not as control over the outside world, but as an invitation to see what’s really going on inside of us. 5:18 - Redefining Freedom: Not from the Outside Here, I question the social idea of freedom and discuss how true freedom has nothing to do with what happens around us. This freedom is untouched by any external situation. 14:01 - Life as a Mirror Life is constantly reflecting our relationship with ourselves. I dive into how everything we see is filtered through how we see ourselves, and why this is the key to real freedom. 20:34 - Breaking Free from External Control When we believe that others or circumstances control our emotions, we give away our power. Real freedom is recognizing that peace is already within us, not something anyone else can give or take away. 26:22 - Owning Your Inner Experience I explore what it means to take responsibility for our emotions and perceptions, and how this personal accountability actually opens the door to deep compassion and inner peace. 32:32 - Playing the Game of Ego Using the analogy of a game, I explain how identifying with the ego keeps us trapped in fear and validation. But when we recognize it’s not really us, we can step into clarity and freedom. 37:45 - Freedom in Relationships Relationships are a powerful mirror. I share how releasing expectations and judgments in our connections with others brings a genuine, heart-based freedom and deeper intimacy. 41:02 - Embracing Life as a Sacred Miracle Closing with a reflection, I talk about living with openness and curiosity, enjoying this human experience for the incredible adventure it is.

In this mini deep-dive session, we’re exploring the real roots of emotional freedom by looking at how our thoughts, perceptions, and deep-seated beliefs shape our experience. This session dives into the ways we mistake imagination for reality, how we can get lost in societal and emotional illusions, and why true peace requires radical self-honesty. Together, we’ll uncover practical insights on discerning between what’s real and imagined, moving closer to a life of genuine clarity and freedom. Chapters [00:00:00] - Waking Up from the Dream [00:07:30] - Social Hypnosis and Emotional Extremes [00:15:00] - Imagination vs. Reality [00:22:30] - Life as Projection [00:30:00] - The Ego and Identity [00:37:30] - Authentic Spirituality [00:45:00] - Seeing Life Clearly [00:52:30] - Letting Go of Outside Attachments

In this session, we’re diving into the nature of love and exploring why we so often take things personally. Ever notice how life seems to bring up exactly what challenges us most? We’ll unpack why that happens and how these moments are actually opportunities to uncover more peace, clarity, and yes—love. This talk is about releasing the weight of personal attachment and embracing a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. We’ll explore practical ways to shift from taking things personally to seeing situations more clearly, helping you cultivate an openness to love that isn’t dependent on external validation. If you’re looking for insights to bring a sense of ease and freedom into your life, you’ll find it all here. Chapters [00:01:27] 🧩 Taking Things Personally [00:04:52] 💭 Imagination vs. Reality [00:07:15] 🤔 Is It Really About You? [00:10:22] 🍦 The Ice Cream Analogy [00:21:32] ❤️ Love Without Attachment [00:37:08] 🌈 Infinite Love

Let’s dive into the playful paradox of life’s dream-like nature. Have you ever wondered if “you” as you know it really exists or if it’s just a character in a dream? Here, I unravel this idea, exploring how our minds create elaborate stories about “self” and reality, only to find they’re just clever illusions. What does it mean to live with this awareness, to see our experiences as both meaningful and ultimately weightless? Stick around if you’re ready to laugh at the “seriousness” of life, question what’s real, and maybe let go of a few illusions along the way. CHAPTERS 00:00 – Coming Up Clip 00:38 – Intro: Sanity Check & Playful Presence 02:38 – Life’s Illusions: Seeing Beyond What Appears Real 06:32 – Nothing is What It Seems 12:00 – Understanding the Power of Interpretation 15:16 – The Invitation of True Spirituality 22:34 – Inviting Presence: A Path to Wakefulness 32:25 – Judgment and Conditional Love: The Dream’s Stronghold

In this session, I’m breaking down why life’s judgments are, frankly, a big (cosmic) joke that separates you from Life. We dive into how the mind creates an illusion of seriousness—imaginary points and reasons to judge that weigh us down. Watch this video if you’re ready to see through that nonsense and reconnect with a lighter, more playful reality. Here’s your invitation to step back, see life clearly, and maybe even laugh at how seriously the mind takes itself. Chapters 00:00:00 Intro – Coming Up Teaser 00:00:37 The Illusion of Seriousness and Playfulness 00:02:04 Judgment as Separation and Reflection 00:06:07 Connecting Beyond Words and Stories 00:10:46 Being Present vs. Mental Commentary 00:15:19 Seeing the Universe in a Flower 00:23:34 The Mind’s Loops and Unnecessary Suffering 00:33:25 Returning to Play and Trusting Life’s Flow

In this exploration, we explore the profound power of perception—how the stories we create shape our reality and our emotional experiences. There's a simple yet revolutionary shift we can make, from seeing a world of separation to recognizing a unity that's been here all along. We dive into this illusion of separateness that so easily colors our memories, judgments, and beliefs about ourselves and others. What if everything we experience is simply a mirror, showing us our inner world? Together, we’ll uncover how our assumptions and interpretations can lead us away from peace and connection, while a clear, undistorted view brings us back to wholeness. I invite you to see beyond your filters, to touch that sense of oneness and ease that emerges when we step back and release our need to define everything as “out there.” Let's question the beliefs that divide us, letting them dissolve into a deeper understanding of presence, love, and the remarkable gift of simply being. CHAPTERS 0:00 - Intro Clip 0:33 - The Illusion of Separation 1:55 - The Honesty of ‘Seems’ 3:01 - Seeing as a Mirror 6:56 - The Loving Lens of Consciousness 9:24 - The Dream of Separation 13:48 - No Judgment from Life 16:41 - Suffering from Stories, Not Reality 19:21 - Healing Through Clear Perception

This meditative exploration is taken from Tiger's weekly group meetup on zoom, for HeartBased.io Deep Divers. Are You the Creator of Your Reality? Have you ever felt like a victim of circumstances outside of your control? In this eye-opening talk, Tiger explores the radical idea that we create our own reality through our interpretations. Learn how Total Experiential Accountability means you are responsible for everything you experience. Discover how watching your thoughts can transform struggles. Hear strategies for taking charge of your narratives and reactions. Gain insights on crafting a life of meaning and adventure by acknowledging the power you hold over your experiences. It's time to realize you have the ability to author any reality you desire. Click to learn how to start consciously creating your world.

In This Video: Tiger shares profound insights into the nature of self, reality, and life in this thought-provoking talk. He discusses three pivotal self-discoveries — that who we think we are doesn't truly exist, our true nature is already whole and complete, and life is a mirror reflecting our own perceptions — and how deeply realizing these truths can transform every area of our lives. Through compelling stories and examples, Tiger illustrates how our mistaken beliefs about the self create suffering and limit our experience of life. This video invites viewers to question their understanding of identity, inadequacy, and reality, and challenges common misconceptions about the nature of self, others, and the world around us. For the course Tiger mentioned... "30 Days of Conscious Living," you can go here: https://go.heartbased.io/cls If you already have access to this course, go here [0:00:00] Introduction [0:03:45] Discovery 1 - Who I think I am, doesn't really exist - Tiger discusses the illusion of identity and how the "I" we think of doesn't exist - Invites listeners to question this deeply [0:14:27] Discovery 2 - What I really am, is already whole and complete - Tiger discusses the illusion of inadequacy and how wholeness is already present - Invites listeners to see this more clearly [0:23:57] Discovery 3 - Life, or “experience,” is a mirror that shows me how I see myself - Tiger explains that life mirrors back our own perceptions and creations - Highlights how this can transform how we relate to everything [0:28:08] Applying the discoveries - Tiger gives an example of how this applies to relationships - Emphasizes getting past mind noise and conditioning to see reality [0:36:42] Go Deeper with 30 Days of Conscious Living - Tiger invites listeners to see their true nature beyond mental constructs - Encourages taking the 30 day course to dive deeper

Explore the intriguing connections between guilt, self-worth, and the narratives we create in our minds and discover how these personal stories can distort our perception of self and reality. Dive into this delightful discussion and learn how to play the game of life without tying your worth to wins and losses. A must-watch for anyone seeking clarity amidst confusion and a lighter approach to life's challenges.

Are you ready to confront the truths you've been avoiding? In this live video session, we'll dive deep into the heart of what it means to truly love and honor ourselves. This isn't about the comforting words we tell ourselves to feel better. Instead, it's about facing the raw, sometimes uncomfortable realities of our lives. We often wrap ourselves in the guise of 'self-love' to avoid confronting the areas where we're not showing up for ourselves. But what if this avoidance is actually a form of self-sabotage? What if the kindest thing we can do for ourselves is to be brutally honest about our dissatisfaction and the ways we're not living up to our potential? This session is an invitation to challenge yourself, to look closely at the aspects of your life where you're not fully satisfied. It's about acknowledging where you're holding back, where fear has been dictating your choices, and where comfort has become a subtle trap that keeps you from growing. Together, we'll explore how to break free from these patterns, how to embrace the courage to face our fears, and how to take meaningful steps towards true self-improvement and fulfillment. This is more than just a conversation; it's a call to action for your heart and soul. If you're feeling a tug in your heart as you read this, trust that it's a sign you're ready for this journey. Your presence in this session could be the turning point you’ve been waiting for. Let's embrace this opportunity for heartfelt honesty and real growth, together.

Friends, if you're seeking to deepen your understanding of conscious creation and living an authentic life aligned with your highest purpose, I have a special treat for you. Tiger recently hosted an insightful live video episode of his HeartBased Solopreneur series called "Wisdom for Being a Conscious Creator." Through his down-to-earth yet profoundly wise perspective, Tiger explores how to recognize unconscious assumptions that shape our reality and discover our true worth beyond circumstances. He shares powerful insights into relationships as mirrors for self-reflection, and how engaging life's journey cultivates personal growth rather than avoiding difficulties. You'll learn how any path can become a journey of conscious self-discovery when approached with willingness to encounter struggles as opportunities.

Friends, if you seek greater peace and freedom in your journey, I invite you to tune into this special episode of HeartBased Solopreneur with Tiger. In "My Secret: Knowing That I Don't Know," Tiger shares profound insights into questioning our assumptions of knowledge and embracing the unknown. Through his signature blend of wisdom, compassion and playfulness, Tiger guides us on an exploration of how tensions arise from thinking we know what we don't. He illuminates the invitation to release resistance and align with what is true. Tiger also discusses embracing difficult growth and questioning illusions of control that cause suffering. Tiger speaks from his heart to offer perspective that can help us see through delusions and connect more fully with what we truly crave. If you wish to deepen your understanding and experience greater peace within life's uncertainties, I know you will find this discussion with Tiger both insightful and uplifting.

Friends, if you're looking for an hour of inspiration and insight as Tiger guides us to our true selves, I have the perfect episode for you. In this episode of "Holding Space Podcast" titled "Go Beyond Guilt, Self Violence, and illusions of Ugliness," Tiger takes us on a journey of self-reflection. Through his gentle yet thought-provoking dialogue, Tiger helps unravel the illusions that keep us trapped in guilt and violence towards ourselves. You'll gain a new perspective on concepts like choice, responsibility and the nature of reality. Tiger also shares powerful stories that illustrate our innate wellness and interconnectedness. As with all of Tiger's work, there's a lightness and humor that makes these "aha" moments sink deep into your being. So if you're ready to release limiting beliefs and reconnect with your true, loving essence, I highly recommend dedicating an hour to immerse in this episode with Tiger. It's the perfect reminder of what really matters - our shared humanity beyond all surface stories. Enjoy!

Through personal stories and meditations, Tiger explores how our need to manage life according to plans and expectations actually arises from fear, not care. He reveals the freedom that comes from playing life's games with joy instead of points, and controlling others only controls ourselves. This episode is sure to leave you feeling lighter and more present through Tiger's signature blend of wisdom and humor. So if you're ready to relax your grip on how you think things should be and find deeper connection instead, I highly recommend spending some time with Tiger in this thoughtful discussion on releasing expectations and returning to simplicity.

Friends, if you're looking for an hour to slow down from the chaos of life and connect with what truly matters, I have the perfect video for you. Join us on this latest episode of "HeartBased Solopreneur" called "A Surrendered Heart Let it All Go" where he dives deep into the art of surrender and presence. Those familiar with Tiger know he has a gift for sharing profound insights in a relatable, no-nonsense way. In this session, Tiger invites us to let go of agendas, labels, and what we think is happening for what actually is. He challenges our deepest assumptions with compassion and humor. As always, Tiger speaks from his own journey which gives his words authenticity and wisdom well beyond his years.

To what degree can you see that “taking things personally” is killing your relationship? In this live broadcast, Tiger will review and share insights into the 7 keys to… going beyond takings things personally in relationships. This short deep dive will invite you to be radically honest with yourself, and see the real life opportunity you have to improve the quality of space you can hold for yourself and others. The natural consequence is more presence, deeper intimacy, and meaningful growth as a conscious human being.

In the shifting worlds of thoughts, feelings, and expectations, where is the singular home for your heart, body, and mind to find peace and sanity? Often lost and discombobulated, we find ourselves grasping for stability – only to be met with the painful collapse of whatever it was we thought might rescue us. Yet, there is this sacred opportunity to discover a home that does not leave, does not collapse, and will forever be the final source of your strength, rejuvenation, and capacity to heal. In this Deep Dive, we will take a journey into the heart of reality, and collectively hold space for us to remember the home that’s always been there. We will rest, we will surrender the chaos of both the mind and the world, and find ourselves grounded in the reality of truth, love, and freedom.

Friends, I'm excited for you to listen to this episode of Tiger's Holding Space Podcast. Today he shares about the four pillars that have guided his own spiritual journey: perception, acceptance, transparency and healing. Though Tiger wasn't feeling his usual energetic self for a planned discussion, he found wisdom in going with the flow. His honest reflections model the very lessons of embracing what is with compassion. You'll gain insight into navigating life's challenges with grace as he maps his process of cultivating presence, humility and recognizing our shared humanity. Most of all, I hope Tiger's message of innate wholeness inspires you to be gentle with yourself. May his reminder that healing exists beneath our stories bring you comfort and peace in your own transformation. Enjoy this candid conversation - I know you'll find something meaningful for your journey.

Friends, as you're about to listen to this discussion, know that Tiger speaks from a place of profound wisdom, care and insight. In "Everything Real, is Sacred; Everything Real, is God", he guides an exploration into discerning reality from our mental stories in a way that can't help but uplift and free you. Through gentle yet penetrating inquiry, Tiger reveals how we create experiences and get caught in struggles by confusing imagination with reality. He invites us to surrender clinging to an imaginary identity and instead return home to the sacredness within. I found myself seeing past long-held patterns as he spoke. Whether you want relief from suffering, clarity on life's purpose or simply time with a teacher who sees your wholeness, Tiger's presence and commentary provide food for deep reflection. As the discussion unfolds, open fully to his perspective - it just may shift your entire way of seeing. I hope you receive the gifts of opening and peace this session offers. Enjoy! Chapter Outline for “Everything Real is Sacred; Everything Real is God” Podcast Episode [[0:00:04]] Introduction Welcome, friends. In this episode, we explore the difference between what is truly happening and what we imagine. [[0:05:36]] Seeing Beyond Our Thoughts I am grateful to realize that our thoughts do not actually manifest, but rather, we perceive them as real. It has profound implications to understand that our inner world responds to our imagination, rather than the external world. [[0:10:37]] Discerning Reality from Imagination We invite you to discern what is truly unfolding from what we imagine. It is easy to assume that our inner experiences are solely influenced by external factors, but there is great value in recognizing how far from the truth that can be. [[0:16:28]] Understanding Spiritual Concepts Beyond Conditioning Words carry meaning based on our conditioning and interpretation, not just the intention behind them. When you listen to this episode, you are truly hearing yourself and your own filters. [[0:22:23]] How We Create Our Experience Through Imagination Our experiences are shaped by the countless scenarios we imagine. However, when we confuse imagination with reality, we become prisoners of our own mind, believing the illusions we create are real. [[0:26:23]] Surrendering the Imaginary Self We invite you to let go of the imaginary character and identity we have constructed and instead see what truly exists beyond the stories of our mind. [[0:30:37]] The Humor in Clinging to an Imaginary Identity Let's gently observe the innocent struggle and futility of the character within us that desperately seeks validation and tries to prove its existence, even though it will never receive the confirmation it seeks. [[0:33:54]] We're All Playing the Same Game Every being goes through the same mechanism of struggle, all afraid of facing the truth that there is no separate self. [[0:34:58]] Letting Go of What We Think is Happening The path is not about figuring things out, but about realizing that nothing is truly happening, and therefore, there is nothing to solve. It is a journey of surrendering to what is. [[0:38:23]] Being Held by the Immensity of Life Surrender the fight and return home to the heart of God. Allow life to flow through you, rather than trying to control it with your own agendas. [[0:44:30]] Allowing Experiences to Teach In times of pain and struggle, the invitation is to seek understanding, not the conquest of pain. Explore how innocent misunderstandings contribute to our own suffering. [[0:47:39]] The Sacredness Beyond Our Interpretations What we imagine things to imply is not real. Beneath all the stories we tell ourselves, there lies only the sacredness of God. [[0:52:46]] Guided Meditation: Holding Space for Heartache Join us in a guided meditation that invites you to relax resistance and discover the inherent peace that exists beyond the fears and concepts of the mind.

Are you waiting for the world to wake up? Uh oh, that’s the eternal wait that never comes. In this Episode, Tiger dives into the spiritual trap that assumes life will be better when other people become more… “Spiritual,” or awake. Free yourself from this burden. When you wake up, the whole world wakes up.

What if this isn't a problem, and you're actually supposed to be afraid and feel insecure? What if... you could stop fighting those things, running from those things, or even stop trying to fix those things? Well, if you're open to that, or curious, then this video is for you. We will dive into the nature of self and reality and find permission to be still, open up, fear less, and love more.

Summary We all have an aspect of ourselves that doesn't want to see the truth of life, and this creates an illusion of reality that we use to keep ourselves safe from the Truth of Life. Tiger invites us to look at how this relates to our ability to be sincere and honest. He examines the various ways in which we can convince ourselves that the lies we tell ourselves are actually the truth (”I’m not enough, I’m missing something, etc”), and how this can lead to a lack of self-awareness that pushes a way a real opportunity to BE Alive. Tiger explores why it can seem difficult to open up to the truth of life, and how it relates to our need to control outcomes and other people. Our fear of being vulnerable and facing the truth can prevent us from being our true selves. Additionally, consider the idea that we may be too attached to the illusions of our own making and unwilling to let go of them - even when we know them to be false. Look at all the illusions we have created, and compassionately understand why it can be difficult to be ourselves. Finally, Tiger questions what we are willing to give up in order to open up to the truth of life and be ourselves, and suggests that it requires courage to let go of our illusions and embrace life as it is. Quotes! Tiger 16:34 - “Why does it seem difficult to be sincere and honest? Look at in your own experience - those times when it seems to be difficult to express what is sincere or to be honest. This is like saying, ‘Why is it difficult to allow the truth of Life to be the truth of Life?’ Why? Because it requires us to let go of our illusions of control.” Tiger 23:06 - “If it seems like you're distant from the truth of life, which is also an infinite supply of love, compassion and freedom, it's only because you want something more than you want the truth of life.” Tiger 27:32 - “Look, you have a choice here. Either give yourself back to yourself, or keep being a slave - not a slave to other people, but a slave to your own illusions. Either be what you are and embrace the truth of life, or… keep hiding from yourself, while trying to be what the world wants you to be.” Tiger 30:08 - “In suffering, you think there's something else that's more important than the truth of Life, the truth of what you are. My question extended to you is: what's more important than the truth of your own heart?” Tiger 35:49 - “I hope you're exhausted, because so often, it's when we're exhausted, we can be honest enough about the pain we're experiencing. That becomes an opening for us to look more sincerely at what's going on. We can see our innocent illusions and gently release them.”

Tiger shares an insightful perspective on the infinite worlds of worry that we can get caught up in. He explains that we are not actually worried about reality, but our mental content. He encourages us to come back to the present moment and to recognize that the answer to our worries is in the disappearance of the question. Tiger also points out that the mind's content can be quite threatening to the ego, and encourages us to not believe so much in our worries. He suggests that we explore the concept of meditation as something that can happen all the time, not just as an activity to get a particular outcome. Ultimately, he reminds us that the more we understand the authentic nature of meditation, the more profound the benefits. Quotes! Tiger 07:15: "We're not worried about the reality of life, the reality of what is true, what is real. We are worried about the loss of the illusions we cling to." Tiger 17:19: "The prize is to see reality clearly, which essentially, is to see that there's nothing to worry about. Then love just explodes onto the scene." Tiger 19:23: "The answer is what you find in the disappearance of the question. The answer is presence. The answer is, what is Here and Now, what is real and true. The solution to worry isn’t found by thinking and thinking and thinking." Tiger 26:53: "For me, meditation is something else entirely, than trying to get a personal outcome. More so, it’s about honoring the reality of Life, coming Home to what’s real. Just in doing this, there’s a natural and effortless byproduct of wellness. But… I’m not seeking wellness." Tiger 30:02: "Meditation is the most efficient way to open the window of life. It's the tool that allows you to see the true nature of reality and recognize that there's nothing to worry about. When you meditate, you can open the window of life and let love in. It's that simple. That's why meditation is so powerful."

HIGHLIGHT QUOTES Tiger 10:39: "In order for your idea of fairness to be a real thing, there has to be something called 'unfairness.' Looking for your idea of fairness, requires looking for, and creating, it’s opposite." Tiger 14:19: "We think we're comparing ourselves with other people, but actually, you're comparing yourself with your idea of that other person. So again, we're completely missing reality." Tiger 16:53: "If you compare your life with this person over here, then your life looks a certain way. If you compare your life with that person over there, your life looks a certain way. It’s completely relative in the most absurd and unreal way. Stop comparing yourself with your imagination of other people." Tiger 17:27: "What I invite you to recognize and to really investigate is in that inner assumption that life should be fair. Tell me how that does not create an enormous amount of judgment, projections of guilt, and malicious thought streams that want to punish other people and withhold freedom from other people." Tiger 20:30: "People are under the hypnosis that when they think about life, they think they're thinking about life rather than seeing that they're thinking about their own thinking. Rather than seeing that thinking cannot touch life." Tiger 22:23: "Simply, we are inviting the closing of the gap and the loosening of our grip on our ideas and assumptions and what we think should or should not be. We are decreasing the distance between a belief in our imagination and seeing reality clearly." Tiger 23:04: "It might be wise to understand the fear that might be there in opening up to the idea, or the pointer, that there's no such thing as fairness in reality, especially when we've wanted that for so long, it can seem quite threatening. But, is it really?" Tiger 25:40: "(I’m suffering because life isn’t fair!) No, you're suffering because you're wanting what's not. You're saying/believing, in your suffering, that you're incomplete, that you're un-whole, that you're not enough. You're blaming your own internal dialog on the world." Tiger 27:29: "If you feel stuck in unfairness, and you're saying you know something that you don't really know - you might want it to be that way, fine- but don't pretend like you know because you don't." Tiger 30:41: "We cannot experience emotional disturbance because of what's happening out there. We can only experience emotional disturbance because we're not seeing life clearly." Tiger 35:11: "In reality, what does your meaning mean outside your meaning? What is it mean outside what you think/imagine it means? What’s true, beyond the story you tell?"

Friends, Tiger is at it again exploring the depths of what it means to be human with his signature wit and wisdom. In this episode of "HeartBased Solopreneur" called "The Big, Bad, Super-Cute Ego", Tiger delves into examining our most fundamental misunderstanding - the ego. With his usual skill, Tiger untangles common confusions around the ego and what lies beyond it. He shares profound insights and hilarious anecdotes to shed new light on these eternal mysteries. As always, Tiger's insight has the power to simultaneously crack you up and crack open your heart. So if you're looking for deep reflection and belly laughs, or seeking to more fully embrace life's paradoxes. Join us for what is sure to be another thought-provoking yet lighthearted adventure into truth Understanding the Ego 0:13:36 Ego simply character in mind presenting itself when thinking about something called me. Not problem, product of mind, imaginary. Mistake it for reality then try protect defend unreal thinking real. Suffering message let go surrender burden. Seeing Beyond the Ego 0:24:15 Reality not concerned ego. Impossible speak truth use imagination discover not imaginary. Sunset example mind comments later see before. Can't communicate experience million times more magnificent words. Discover what you really are beyond ego not scared. Stories and the Ego 0:34:27 Stories point beyond themselves greater truths. Ego clings stories thinks resonance means story true. Resonance was true character mind can't define. Tells story hold on suppresses resonance. Religious stories point not important true just see pointed. The Nature of the Ego 0:45:57 Angel wants worshipped not permitted heaven. Self banishes frustrated wants worshipped validated proved existence. Trying be God make unreal real can't so creates hell suffering stems. Human species celebrating separateness validating ideas unreal before God.  

Friends, I know you won't want to miss Tiger's latest insights on the illusions surrounding self love in this episode of Holding Space for Love to be Seen. Through his masterful storytelling and ability to cut to the core, Tiger explores how our misunderstandings of love, self, and reality itself can trap us in a constant struggle. But as always, his message is not one of judgment but of liberation - by clarifying confusion, surrendering fantasies of past and future, and coming fully home to what is true in this moment. If you've ever felt frustrated in your attempts to love yourself or realize your full potential, Tiger offers a profound re-framing that could change everything. And for those who already feel nourished by his teachings, this episode promises to take the inquiry to an even deeper level. As with all of Tiger's work, I know you'll find plenty of 'aha!' moments to chew on and return to again and again. Join us live to experience the magic of Tiger's presence and gain insights that could light your path for years to come. The truth is waiting to be seen - I hope you'll make time to tune in! - Seeing Through the Illusion of Self Love 0:00:00 Self love often sets us up to constantly seek what we think we are, but this changing character is impossible to truly love. Are you trying to love who you think you are, or experience love for what you really are beneath ideas of self? Clarifying Misunderstandings: What Are You Really Trying to Love? 0:10:14 If self love is a struggle, we need to reevaluate what we think love is. Love embraces what is as it is without condition. The struggle comes from unwillingness, not love itself. What are you really trying to love - ideas of self, or the reality beneath? The Trap of Past and Future: Escaping the Present Moment 0:20:25 Belief in past and future as real places what we crave there, making this moment an obstacle. We avoid reality looking elsewhere, missing that what we crave is already here if only seen. Past and future are imaginary - it's not there, only imagined as such. The invitation is to stillness. Self Love Isn't Conditional: Seeing Beyond Expectations 0:30:09 If self love is conditional on how we or situations appear, it's not real love. Real love recognizes wholeness without judgment. All human beings fundamentally desire the same - to see truth. Coming home to this reveals love naturally. Coming Home to Reality: Surrendering Imaginary Fantasies 0:40:44 We worship images like ideas of love, self, past and future rather than reality. This discovery of seeing truth is the most important thing, inspiring total devotion to what simply is, here, now.

Through gentle words and reflection, Tiger invites us to question why we feel the need to help and uncover any stories of lack or insecurity beneath the surface. He shares insights on seeing others - and ourselves - with compassion instead of judgment. Sit back and listen as Tiger's wisdom offers comfort. You may just find the permission and reassurance to simply appreciate where you already are.

Pre Broadcast Reflections The Effortless, Everything; Flow with Life (unedited) As a pointer, there are two types of effort. There is the effort of anxious determination that tries to swim upstream. Then, there is the effort of playful exploration, which, effortless, flows downstream. The world itself, effortless, don’t say “no-effort,” it says... “relax, my dear, effort-less.” The effort-full life is fraught with dissatisfaction and disappointment. There is a painful assumption that’s sees yourself at a great distance from what is desired. The subsequent conclusion is that you must fight the current of life, and fight yourself, if you are to ever make meaningful progress. Whatever progress is made, usually can only result in distain or apathy, for wherever you ended up didn’t provide the prize you thought would be there. We can call this a joyless victory that only offered a temporary high of imaginary self importance. Looking back, we see a life spent in conflict, in resistance, flavored with a self righteous sacrifice wrapped in a fear that at any moment you might lose it all. All the while, during this journey of joyless effort striving toward a joyless victory, we miss entirely the real point of being alive. A point that is much more about flow, enjoyment, and discovery, than it is about reach some ephemeral destination. Maybe, as a way of illustrating, we can ask ourselves a question. - am I engaged with effort in this action because I’m genuinely curious, or, am I engaged because the outcome has a chance of making me feel important? The first part of the question points toward a downstream flow, as I’m giving attention and effort to something that is already present and alive within me. The second part is an upstream battle that sees the present moment (life) as an obstacle between where you are and where you want to be. It makes perfect sense though, why we would operate in a way that fights life, or feels the real prize is in the future. This has been the conditioning, where society has told what you should be interested in, what you should be doing, and what self-congratulatory prize awaits you in the future for doing what you were told. Rather than letting go of you and inviting you to discover what’s already within you wanting to be explored. Asking you... “what adventure you are here to discovery; why are you ALIVE?” No, we say... “Let me tell you why you are alive. You are alive to make me feel important. You should do what I say, you should be my prisoner so that I can feel like I have some semblance of control.” What a fucking disaster. To truly flow with life, we must return to life; which is to turn away from what society and others demand of you (so they can hide from themselves), and get in touch with the aliveness within what you are. Get in touch with a worth and value already present, not projected into the future and given by others who are woefully confused about life. Given by those who value nonsense, like praising you because you’ve collected more trinkets than your neighbor. These people don’t see you, they see their own egocentric fantasy projected onto you. How gross is that to claim this as your own praise. The Effortless Life, is to connect with a guidance that knows where you go next. The guidance is never about a future prize, its never about being worshiped or validated by the worlds, it’s about the present moment unfolding of discovery. Just as a flower unfolds and blooms into life, we as human beings unfold and share our beauty with the world. We are not here to “get” something, for this only implies we are missing something. We are here to discover something beautiful... within what we are, and then share that beauty with the world. Let’s dive into this, and other adorable human nonsense, on this evenings live video broadcast of “Holding Space for Love to be Seen.”

Join Tiger in this episode as he discusses the human conditioning that drives us to entangle our worth and happiness with things outside of ourselves. He explores how our beliefs about the future can prevent us from experiencing a better life now. With humor and insight, he offers a path towards greater awareness and a more fulfilling present moment.

Pre-Broadcast Reflection Want for Nothing & Be Free Now, let’s go slow here. Such a statement as, “Want for Nothing and be Free,” is more of a pointer than an instruction or expectation. If we’re not careful, then we will find ourselves pretending not to want things so we can appear spiritual; which is wanting to appear spiritual. Or worse, we will “want” to not have wants. I love this pointer though, because, for me, there’s a profound truth to be discovered; an ancient truth that’s been pointed to for millennia. Is it really possible to not want for anything, in this spiritual context? Well, comically, and illustratively, there’s two versions of this. 1. We feel that we shouldn’t want, and so we refrain from wanting to the best of our ability and simply make do with what we have. This would be like having a bite today delicious food and then someone offers more. You recognize a hunger that wants more, but deprive yourself because of what someone else might think. 2. It’s recognized, observed, or seen that we simply have everything we need for us to feel abundantly present and grateful. In this state there’s nothing left to want because what is had is plenty. Kind of like being delightfully full after dinner; wanting more food simply isn’t an option. If dessert is offered, you experience more joy gifting it to someone else. Of course, this spiritual pointer isn’t referring to food; even though it could be applied in a healthy way. More so, it’s speaking to our attempts to fill the void within our human experience. The void of identity to be more precise, which plays itself out in a form of seeking to either gain acceptance or avoid rejection. Equally so and the same thing, is the seeking for emotional feelings that either validate a self identity, or avoid emotional feelings that threaten a self identity. This is like “wanting” a bigger house because you feel it will help you have more acceptance. Or, “wanting” someone to stay in a relationship with you because if they don’t… you’ll feel rejected. Now, again, go slow with me here. The invitation isn’t to stop these things, judge these things, or to create any expectations of How you should behave. Quite honestly, as humans, we will all have struggles with experiences like these examples throughout our lives. If anything, the pointer invites is to see something deeply true that helps to reduce (and at times eliminate) the burden that feels so separate from what we (think we) “want.” In summary, and my intention is to dive more deeply into this during the live broadcast, there’s a profound shift that happens as the truth of things is seen more clearly. The Shift… - a transformation from “I anxiously want,” to… “I would enjoy; but I’m also fine if not.” There’s a semantic issue here that we shouldn’t get lost in. Again, it’s not about the words, but more so about what assumptions and beliefs (energy) give breath to these words. Where do the words come from? If I fundamentally see what I am as incomplete, unwhole, or as not enough, then by default I will carry an anxious wanting that looks to remedy that in the world. I will want things in order to be that something I long to see myself as. Beyond the story I want to tell about myself, what it comes down to is… I’m trying to see myself and whole and complete. This suffering over identity, which is all suffering, is not evidence of something missing. Rather, it’s evidence that I don’t see what I truly am. It’s kind of like the experience of gratitude. The lack of gratitude isn’t because you’re missing something to be grateful for. Rather, it’s because you’re not seeing what you already have. As always, as I keep pointing back to, the suffering of anxious wanting is the result of an innocent misunderstanding. If you saw what is really true about you, the anxious want would vanish. Let’s dive into this more during the live broadcast. My fingers are done typing on this tiny device 😂. See you soon.

Introduction [0:00] Surrendering the Noise [2:29] Misunderstandings of Love [6:24] Personal vs. Impersonal Love [13:18] Love as an Object [18:07] Recognizing the Love Within [21:11] Dependency on Conditional Love [25:31] Seeing What’s True [29:16] Being Yourself [33:31] Fantasy of Love [36:19] Q&A [38:09] Love for the Planet [43:18] Divorce in Marriage [47:24] Healing Perception of Love [53:26] Guided Meditation [1:11:08]